The perception of happiness is different for everybody, some people believe happiness is being with the person you love, friend or partner and yes i do agree with this to a certain extent. People around you should make you feel happy and positive.
However what i have a problem with is when people rely on a significant person to be happy, this is both soul destroying and heartbreaking to me.
I cannot stress this enough, HAPPINESS NEEDS TO COME FROM WITHIN!!!
you need to be happy in yourself and be happy being alone, you are the only person who is ever gonna be with you for your whole life span whether long or short.
In a relationship? cool. If you rely on your partner for happiness however, this is both going to break you and your partner as the months go by.
Your partner will feel the stress of having to keep you happy and you being clung to them 24/7 like a source of energy charging up your happiness for the day. Pathetic.
What if your partner ends the relationship? Your source of happiness is gone, you'll be like a starving animal looking searching for any type of food that will fill that void.
This is when rebounds happen, you go straight to another beating heart to feed that addiction of draining their happiness like a vampire to blood, addicted to stealing someone elses happiness because you cant produce your own without another persons help.
Take a step back, think, be able to be on your own and create your own happiness alone. This is will improve your confidence and self assurance. most importantly you will be independent and that is the thing i cant stress enough being able to be your own person without leaching on to someone else is both empowering and amazing.
never understand estimate your own happiness.
you are awesome just as yourself.
Bye for now xo
